A young lady has taken to social media to narrate the story of how an only child killed himself 4th time after failing the Joint Admission Matriculation Board (JAMB) examination.
According to the note the deceased left behind, he disclosed that the reason why she took laws into her hands was because his mom had warned him never to return home if he fails the examination again. Unfortunately, he failed again.
Klariza Ruby Ochei also reveals that in the note, the deceased revealed that while he was in school his mother was always busy and never had time to check how he was faring. His mom never checked his books.
Ochei shared the post on Saturday, March 23, with the caption: “Gather around guys! My mom told me a true like story yesterday that pierce my bone. Her friend’s son wrote jamb the first time, he did well but wasn’t given admission. He wrote the next year and he wasn’t given admission as well. He didn’t give up, he wrote last Year and performed woefully, and his parents were angry with him. And his mom told him if he write again this year and doesn’t do well, he shouldn’t come back home because she has wasted a lot of money on him alone. The boy took jamb this year and unfortunately, his result was unpleasing. His parents were not at home. He told his friends (his neighbor) that he didn’t do well. He told them what his mother told him. This boy went into the house locked himself, wrote a letter to his mom that his mom has never gone through his note even when he attended tutorial. She is so busy with work and he took rat poison and died. And this boy is the only child of his mother. Please I beg of you parents never put fear in a child when it comes to academics. Even if he performed woefully he can learn a vocational trade and be successful. There are a lot of children who don’t do well in classroom but in the room of vocational skills they are unbeatable. Besides there is always a room for change, you want your child to go far than you’ve gone then you shouldn’t do it a scary way. Believe me I am a teenager too and I tell you parents IT’S NOT EASY!! If it’s easy why didn’t you get to that stage you want your child to be now during your own time?? The funniest part is some parents don’t have Time for their children. To go through their children books is like a big task. Then how would you know if his failure has been telling on him long before now? Please let’s always encourage our children. Let’s give them the support we can let’s show them love n care as parents. No child is dull. It’s either faults are from the parents or teachers. Parents spend quality time with your children I beg you. RubyWrites.”